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Being Transformed Gracefully
Hello and welcome! I’m so glad you’re here. My name is Bernice Tyler-Graddy, and I’m the founder of BTG COACHING & CONSULTING. This blog,...
BERNICE TYLER-GRADDY
Sep 51 min read


When Love Needs Space — Devotional Edition
Scripture: Mark 1:35 — “Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up, left the house and went off to a solitary place, where He prayed.” Sometimes love needs a little space to breathe. When tempers flare and hearts feel raw, it’s easy to believe that stepping back means giving up — but often, it’s the first act of wisdom. Even Jesus withdrew at times to pray, not because He stopped loving people, but because He understood the importance of peace in His pu
BERNICE TYLER-GRADDY
5 days ago2 min read


The Gift of Boundaries — Devotional Edition
Scripture: Proverbs 4:23 — “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” It’s one thing to set boundaries at work or in leadership — but it’s another when the people testing those boundaries are the ones you love most. Family wounds cut deep because love is already intertwined. When tempers flare, when words sting, and when faith feels far away, boundaries become more than a principle — they become a lifeline. God’s Word teaches us to guard our he
BERNICE TYLER-GRADDY
Nov 92 min read


Spiritual Confidence: Standing Firm When Others Don’t Understand Your Faith
Romans 8:31 — “If God is for us, who can be against us?” Spiritual confidence isn’t arrogance — it’s assurance. It’s knowing who sent you, even when no one else sees the vision. When you walk by faith, you don’t need validation, applause, or agreement — just alignment. Faith Insight Confidence rooted in Christ is unshakable because it doesn’t depend on circumstances or opinions. David faced giants, Esther faced kings, and Jesus faced the cross — all while others doubted thei
BERNICE TYLER-GRADDY
Nov 31 min read


“Permission to Pivot: When Your Path No Longer Fits”
Scripture: Isaiah 30:21 — “Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, ‘This is the way; walk in it.’” What if outgrowing something sacred doesn’t mean you’ve failed — it means you’ve evolved? Sometimes God calls us to move not because we’re lost, but because we’ve learned what we were meant to in that season. The courage to pivot begins with giving yourself permission to stop forcing what no longer fits. Faith Insight Every c
BERNICE TYLER-GRADDY
Oct 272 min read


The Mirror Test: Are You Leading from Ego or Purpose?
Scripture Reference: Philippians 2:3–4 — “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of others.” Every leader eventually faces a quiet, personal question: Why am I really doing this? We live in a world that celebrates visibility, yet true influence is often invisible. Ego leads for recognition; purpose leads for transformation. The difference between
BERNICE TYLER-GRADDY
Oct 192 min read


Uncomfortable Grace: When Growth Doesn’t Feel Good
Scripture: 2 Corinthians 12:9 — “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” We love the idea of grace when it feels soft and comforting — like a warm blanket after a long day. But grace doesn’t always feel good. Sometimes, it’s the sharp edge of truth that forces us to grow, the unexpected delay that tests our patience, or the heartbreak that brings us to our knees. God’s grace doesn’t always protect us from the storm — sometimes it strengthens
BERNICE TYLER-GRADDY
Oct 192 min read


The Power of the Pause: What Silence Teaches Us About Strength
Scripture: Luke 5:16 — “But Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed.” What if your next breakthrough comes in a moment of stillness? In a world that constantly tells us to “hustle harder,” pausing can feel like falling behind. But strength isn’t always measured by how fast you move — sometimes it’s revealed by how still you can stand. The pause is not a sign of weakness; it’s an act of wisdom. It’s the sacred space where clarity meets courage and peace prepares you f
BERNICE TYLER-GRADDY
Oct 131 min read


FAITH AFFIRMED
This October, as the world turns pink in recognition of Breast Cancer Awareness Month, I’m reminded that behind every ribbon is a story —...
BERNICE TYLER-GRADDY
Oct 82 min read


Peace, Power, Purpose & Promise
Peace Peace: Finding Calm in the Midst of Pain When grief comes, peace often feels impossible. The silence after loss can be deafening....
BERNICE TYLER-GRADDY
Oct 62 min read


New Series: Peace • Power • Purpose
I’m opening my heart to share a story that carried me from deep pain to steady hope. If you’re walking through loss or longing for...
BERNICE TYLER-GRADDY
Sep 293 min read
My Super Power
I grew up in the country, where the hot August air hung thick and the stories my father told were even thicker. They were tales of...
BERNICE TYLER-GRADDY
Sep 222 min read


Deepening Connection
At the heart of our journey lies connection. Spiritual practices are not only about personal growth; they are pathways to deeper...
BERNICE TYLER-GRADDY
Sep 151 min read


The Power of Daily Spiritual Disciplines -Building Inner Strength
We all understand the value of strengthening our bodies. But what about strengthening our inner lives? Daily spiritual practices serve as...
BERNICE TYLER-GRADDY
Sep 81 min read


The Power of Daily Spiritual Discipline - Cultivating Presence
In a world that constantly pulls us toward the next deadline, the next obligation, or the next distraction, presence can feel like a...
BERNICE TYLER-GRADDY
Sep 81 min read
The Power of Daily Spiritual Disciplines
In a world that moves at lightning speed, it’s easy to feel swept away by the demands of daily life. Yet, amidst the chaos, there is a...
BERNICE TYLER-GRADDY
Sep 82 min read


Discover Your Purpose with Faith-Based Life Coaching
Finding your purpose can feel like a daunting task. Many people wander through life, unsure of their direction. They may feel lost,...
BERNICE TYLER-GRADDY
Aug 205 min read


Empower Your Team with Inspirational Leadership Development
In today's fast-paced world, effective leadership is more important than ever. Inspirational leadership development can transform a team,...
BERNICE TYLER-GRADDY
Aug 205 min read


Cultivate Emotional Wellbeing Through Coaching and Support
In today's fast-paced world, emotional wellbeing is more important than ever. Many people find themselves overwhelmed by stress, anxiety,...
BERNICE TYLER-GRADDY
Aug 204 min read
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